Final Post

I should start by saying that I am excited to be heading back to the Bay. I’m looking forward to all the things we’ve missed about living there - especially family and friends. But it’s been a process. Initially I was hesitant and maybe even resistant to the idea of moving back to the US. Partly because I’ve enjoyed the experience of living abroad and partly because I’ve enjoyed seeing the boys grow up abroad.

So I’ve had to think about what it is about living abroad that I’ve liked so much.  I think there are many. But for the most part I have enjoyed being exposed to different cultures, different people, different places, and appreciating the diversity all around us. It has broadened our view of the world. I think we have also been less assuming about the future, we have been less consumed with our possessions and we have learned to depend on each other as a family.

Coming back to the Bay is going to be especially great for Grace. She’s worked under extreme stress and pressure for many years and taking a break to relax is just the right thing for her. She’s ready to enjoy spending more time at home and with the boys and I think having family and friends close by will make it all the more refreshing for her.

Even though I’ve had some time to think about it, I’m still a bit nervous about our transition back to the US. The upcoming presidential election probably makes me even more anxious. I hope that the past 5-6 years has a lasting impact on all of us – especially the boys. I don’t want them to be ashamed or seem like they’re too different or feel like they’ve missed out on something.

And who knows? After making the decision to live overseas twice, it’s doesn’t seem impossible for it to happen again. For now, we will appreciate the next stop on our journey…

(As we were finishing up our packing, I looked down at the flip flops I've worn for the past few years and thought how blessed I am that they've been to so many places.)